Well, DOTU, you and I have had our tiffs in the past (oooh matron) but sadly I can only echo what you have written. Some people have been lucky and been given the said "respect" and opportunities to develop careers and lives. However the majority is not in that position, and I have seen many lives blighted by the small minds and bigots who still pervade the rank structures.
This isn't some green eyed rant at missed chances or lack of opportunity, this is from someone who like many others swallowed the myth that hard work, dedication, application, duty and honesty would result in reward of promotion and recognition. If so, how come the army almost certainly guarantees you SNCO rank by the time 22 comes round, yet I see plenty of RAF cpls retiring. In fact today, a colleague of mine has just been shafted for the last time and his PVR is hitting the desk this week - and you couldn't find a more willing and dedicated airman.
I'm afraid I can't accept that we all get treated equally - OOAs certainly don't rotate evenly. The trouble is the hierarchy relies on the "will do" attitude, and they certainly engender the "divide and rule" policy, as posts on this thread will attest.
It's a shame really - I don't regret joining up per se, I've seen and done some good things, but I just regret what the RAF has allowed itself to become, and the genre of some of the people who have got on at the expense of the ones who should have. Not all of those who have got on are obviously that bad - I've had a few cracking bosses - but there are plenty of the wrong sort who have progressed, that make the rest of us decide enough's enough...
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