And there's the rub, one mans essential shopping is another blokes unnecessary item. For example if you're revamping the bath room and the old one has gone then, for hygiene reasons, having a bath and its accompanying bits and bobs delivered and fitted is essential if you're planning to do the upgrade after it's all over in say 6 months time then buying the bath fittings now is unnecessary shopping. For me Beer = essential, hair spray = unnecessary but for a Doris it could be the reverse.
I'll leave you with this, maybe it'll make people take a step back before you have a rant about what's essential and what isn't.
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Do you ever think maybe that guy buying a tub of paint knows he must keep busy because idle hands in the past has caused him to relapse and pick up that slab of beer ?
So he's using this time to do home improvements, something that keeps his mind busy while feeling a sense of accomplishment, trying to avoid painful triggers while possibly alone ?
Or maybe that lady buying bags of soil and seeds, hasn't struggled with depression and suicide ?
How do you know that planting and watching something beautiful grow during this time of darkness , isn't essential to her and holding on to what little hope she might still have ..
We need to remember that it is impossible to know just by looking at a situation from "our" small lens what someone is truly going through or where their mental health is at .
Everyone handles chaos and healing through different means , and I know we are all on edge but please stop being so judgmental of others.
#mentalhealthisnumberone