We do not have enough mental support services in the UK, at all. We need more shrinks and facilities - desperately.
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Obviously I cannot comment on PTSD directly but I can comment on Mental Health services in the UK and the stigma of Mental Health problems in general.
After my mum passed away suddenly I appeared to cope well and was praised on my fortitude by Mental Health professionals. I come from a Military background and us 'additional baggage' types from the 70's and 80's were taught (obliquely) to put up and shut up just as much as you guys were... so that is what I did. Until a pretty comprehensive breakdown about 10 months later. It continued to affect me for... well I suppose ever since really.
The point at which I realised I was on my own to sort this out came after I contacted Cruise for help... my doc prescribed the usual prozac and referred me to group theray, really helpful when one of the symptoms of my breakdown was acute agrophbia with panic attacks... Cruise informed me that I could not tell my doc or the CPO liaison that I was seeing them or they would 'turn off' any NHS help I was getting. From that point on I got angry and helped myself out of the mess.
The point is, I am a resiliant human being who had the mental skills and intelligence to seek help and answers. If I had been any lower or not had my husband and children (and inate common sense) I would have sunk into a cycle of depression with nothing more than a standard prescription and distinct disinterest from the NHS. Corporate disinterest you understand... the people I dealt with were usually great.
Now this is my story as a civillian, times the mis-understandings by the general lack of military knowledge and I can only imagine how much more dificult it must be to get appropriate help... after all, many, many people have lost a close family member and I still found it hard... how many people have had experience of war.
I talk about my experience, I want people to know that even the strong people, the copers of the world need help from time to time and that anyone can have mental problems. Trust me, I am possibly the last person you would expect to have been through this!! Even I feel the stigma though... try explaining a 3 year career break... I have to admit I bend the truth, how many employers would chose a person with my history.
I have no quick answers... I have enough problems sorting myself out..LOL... I do, however, think that the more this is in the public conciousness the better it will get. My advice to anyone who has made it through is to tell your story and help people understand.