I have to say that my service, and civilian experience was the complete opposite. I saw an absolute glut of abuse in my time in the RAF, physical, psychological and sexual. Very little of it was actually reported, because really, what would have been the point, nothing would have been done about it. The attitude was if you can't take it, you shouldn't be there, I didn't mean it, you're taking it the wrong way etc. And because the system in no way thought that the abuse was wrong, it was a green light for it to continue.
Switch to civvy street, and actions have consequences. Abusers are called on their actions, have to explain them, and crucially, have to own them. And maybe that's why since leaving the military in 1992, I've seen precious little workplace abuse.
In the real world, and it's slowly, very slowly sinking in with the military, abuse in all forms, including sexual harassment and bullying is as defined by the victim. That's the way it is, and it leaves the abuser with nowhere to run. When the military fully embraces this and stops blaming the victims, then maybe the page will be turned.
But I'm not holding my breath.