Having worked on both sides of the Civvi/Blue Suit divide, I (still) believe that life in the Forces beats life out in the real world. Despite the fact that so much of what is good about being in the mob is being thrown away with lean initiatives and aggressive civilianisation, there remains, for now at least, a strong feeling of loyalty and camaraderie within trades and branches. What lies ahead, however, remains to be seen as, IMHO, loyalty to the troops from those in positions of responsibility is at an all time low. Meeting contractual targets is now a higher priority than maintaining morale and supporting servicemen and women and their families.
A service career is no longer a job for life - if you get in, make the most of your time. Use the resources available to you (there are still many) and get out there and see as much of the world whenever you have the opportunity. You may not have it for long. I consider myself to have been extremely lucky in my short career. I've had some great postings, been to some interesting places and had the privilege to work with (and for) some exceptional people. It is though, in my opinion, the people you will work with and not necessarily the job itself that will give you the greatest rewards.
If you still want to join the RAF do it with your eyes open. Do your research and do not take the views of one or two people as gospel. Some of us are unhappy with the way it appears the RAF is heading, partly because we fear that many of the benefits that we have enjoyed over the years are being lost. Others simply don’t see it that way. Ultimately, I guess this is a long winded way of saying that the decision is up to you. Sorry if that’s not much help.
Bluntend.