Life out there
Life out there
Naivety is something that all of us who have been in the Military suffer from, we may not like to admit it but we do. Remember most of you have been in since school or just after and the RAF like all other large organisations will try to make you come round to their way of thinking. Loyalty is something the RAF take for granted and most of us have given it willingly over the years. With the defence cuts and redundancies of the nineties through to the latest SDSR, if the lack of RAF loyalty has come as a shock, then you are really suffering from naivety.
The ones who seem to have the problems are the ones in the service who are told the sun is flowing from their rears and how special they are. The rest of the tribe including barrier lifters, Cooks, bottle washers and others like good old Stackers of which I am ex of the blanket tech’s, on the whole were never subject to the you are so special and the service could not do without you. So on leaving it was no different just got on with the job or in my case running my own business.
There are elements of my time in the RAF I do miss, but overall I was surprised as were close friends in how quickly I settled in to civilian life. I have recently had contact with the RAF to do with my business and I went to the Station as a businessman not as an ex RAF SNCO. I now rarely mention my time in the service to folk other than ex-service; there does not seem a need to. Don’t get me wrong I am proud of my time in the RAF, but it is not the be all and end all.
It is really sad to see the Royal Air Force cut to the bone,but the only positive is that no matter whom you are, barrier lifters, hot shot Engineers or part of the winged master race all have been Rubber Dicked across the board. Go on the pprune and see them moaning over there about how dare the RAF do this to me I am so important blahblah blah.
The bottom line is no matter what trade you are in the RAF you have got skills that are needed in the big wide world and the same for our Naval Folk. The main problem seems to be the Army and it seems to be across the board from young Soldiers leaving after3 or 4 year to experienced soldiers. In my opinion I think the problem is the way we do our service, in the RAF we tend to be all individuals who get posted on your own. Every time you move to a new Station you have got to make new mates and get on with a new range of folks at work, this is a skill set that is preparing you sub-consciously for your eventual discharge. In the Army especially within the Regiment system it is very much like a big family, you get posted together and sometime know and work with the same folk over a long period. Once you leave this it must be a terrible wrench to the system, and remember what some of these poor sods have been going through over the last 10 years or so. Seeing these close mates being killed or injured and in quite high statistical numbers within certain battalions, is it little wonder that some are not coping very well out of the Army. I have met Ex-Army folk who are doing very well so it is not the actual job skills, and our friendly Rocks seem to be ok with their Crack on attitude which serves them well.
Once you are out you will soon learn that the new number one is you and your family and nobody else, you will soon shed your naivety about loyalty and soon accept that moving between jobs is all part of life.
Good luck to all.