Abducted and abused by a ballet teacher

[needsabiggerfuse]

I knew a lad who had been abused by someone who was 'looking after him'. He was 10 she was late teens. Let's say it fcuked him up in his ability to develop relationships with the opposite sex when he was old enough.

 

[Justacabbie]

BOING! DT_Xtremez_30:

 

[Mad Pierre]

I knew a lad who had been abused by someone who was 'looking after him'. He was 10 she was late teens. Let's say it fcuked him up in his ability to develop relationships with the opposite sex when he was old enough.

yeah but 10? Come on FFS at least this lad had pubes.

besides, I've known hundreds of blokes who were fecked up in their ability to develop relationships with the opposite sex, most of them were well over 16 before they got any. :0

 

[metimmee]

yeah but 10? Come on FFS at least this lad had pubes.

besides, I've known hundreds of blokes who were fecked up in their ability to develop relationships with the opposite sex, most of them were well over 16 before they got any. :0

So there are limits then MP? Where would you draw the line and how would you define a law to take care of this issue?

 

[needsabiggerfuse]

yeah but 10? Come on FFS at least this lad had pubes.

besides, I've known hundreds of blokes who were fecked up in their ability to develop relationships with the opposite sex, most of them were well over 16 before they got any. :0

Just ask yourself why would an adult, male or female, want to have sex with a minor. Would it be to help them into the 'grown-up' world or some other reason. My money is on the latter.

 

[grumpyoldb]

Just ask yourself why would an adult, male or female, want to have sex with a minor. Would it be to help them into the 'grown-up' world or some other reason. My money is on the latter.

Be honest now, I mean really honest. Have you ever driven down the street and seen Julie the schoolie in uniform and thought,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,phfwoooar???

Come on. Be honest and deny it, if you can.

 

[needsabiggerfuse]

Be honest now, I mean really honest. Have you ever driven down the street and seen Julie the schoolie in uniform and thought,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,phfwoooar???

Come on. Be honest and deny it, if you can.

OK. True story. Me 'newly qualified teacher'. Herself 'adolescent, stunningly attractive, head-turner, etc'.

I'm sitting at my desk, she approaches from behind, puts her hand firmly on top of mine in such a way that should I withdraw it, my elbow would have gone straight between her legs. "I need help with ..., etc. Can I stay after the lesson?" "Yes, sure" I replied. Off she went. I popped next door and asked a colleague to come in ASAP after the bell, which he did "Mr 'Fuse could I see you about ...". Herself was fuming and stomped off in a strop. I called in and saw our Child Protection Officer who dealt with it as per the rules.

I could have, on the hand, been in a classroom block which I knew would be empty for at least 50 minutes, with a girl 25 years my junior ...

 

[grumpyoldb]

OK. True story. Me 'newly qualified teacher'. Herself 'adolescent, stunningly attractive, head-turner, etc'.

I'm sitting at my desk, she approaches from behind, puts her hand firmly on top of mine in such a way that should I withdraw it, my elbow would have gone straight between her legs. "I need help with ..., etc. Can I stay after the lesson?" "Yes, sure" I replied. Off she went. I popped next door and asked a colleague to come in ASAP after the bell, which he did "Mr 'Fuse could I see you about ...". Herself was fuming and stomped off in a strop. I called in and saw our Child Protection Officer who dealt with it as per the rules.

I could have, on the hand, been in a classroom block which I knew would be empty for at least 50 minutes, with a girl 25 years my junior ...

We aren't talking about 25 years difference in age, and the lad was 15, possibly only a few weeks from his 16th for all we know. You seem to be twisting the details about just to make a point.

 

[metimmee]

We aren't talking about 25 years difference in age, and the lad was 15, possibly only a few weeks from his 16th for all we know. You seem to be twisting the details about just to make a point.

Your original question asked if NABF had lusted after schoolgirls and I think he answered it very well. Like I asked of MP earlier, define a rule that fits your idea of reasonable.

 

[grumpyoldb]

Your original question asked if NABF had lusted after schoolgirls and I think he answered it very well. Like I asked of MP earlier, define a rule that fits your idea of reasonable.

No he didn't. He didn't succumb to it. He didn't at any stage say that he wasn't tempted, did he? We are not discussing lusting after a 10 year old. We are talking 15 coming on 16 yearolds. Can you truthfully say that they do not turn your head when you drive down the road?

 

[RAF Bird]

No he didn't. He didn't succumb to it. He didn't at any stage say that he wasn't tempted, did he? We are not discussing lusting after a 10 year old. We are talking 15 coming on 16 yearolds. Can you truthfully say that they do not turn your head when you drive down the road?

It matters not if the boy has just turned 15 or is about to turn 16. He is a minor and there are laws in place to protect minors for a reason. Now I am the first to admit and I say it regularly that I am pleased I have a little boy as I now only have one c0ck to worry about and not a whole bunch of them, however his parents sent him to them classes for lessons and put that woman in a position of trust with their child. She broke the rules and she should be dealt with appropriately.

 

[The Masked Geek]

Males and females are sexually and emotionally different and it's about time our laws appreciated that.

Here, fcuking here. DT_Xtremez_30:

Females cannot have an opinion on this story as they do not have the required emotional framework from which to base it.

It would be like describing the life of a toad from the perspective of an elephant.

 

[Scaley brat]

I'm curious about the ratio of parents involved in this thread, in particular parent's to boys and girls.
If SBjnr scored with a young fit teacher when he's 15 and I'm being totally honest here, I would be relieved to find out that he wasn't gay.

I wish one or two of my teachers doled out the rations, one lads mother was "educating" his mates upstairs and the lad that blew the whistle did NOT enjoy his final years in the comprehensive one little bit !

 

[Oberon305]

To be honest, it's not the age difference here that's the issue. If they were both consenting (which from his point of view, I'm guessing he was!) then that goes some way to make this 'OK'.

The issue is that she was his teacher (not in the sexual sense...although....?!?!?). In a position of responsibility like hers, she should have known better.

I've got a boy and a girl, and I know that:

.....if it happened to my son and he was consenting, I'd be slightly disturbed, make a fuss, ask for the teacher to be sacked etc. but deep down I'd be thinking 'get in there son!!!'.

......but if it was my daughter....no matter what the circumstances were....I'd get him sacked, find him and then **** him up big time.

Double standards, yes, but life as we know it.

 

[Harrier Hom]

She can have me anytime
DT_Xtremez_30:

Hmm shes lost a bit of weight since she was in East Enders!

 

[doc670]

Miss Pirie

Miss Pirie

I wonder if her mother ever went down the NAAFI bop on Fridays ??? She's 27, so 1983, hmmmm. Anybody there in '82 ?

 

[Mad Pierre]

So there are limits then MP? Where would you draw the line and how would you define a law to take care of this issue?

Fortunately it's not in my power to make such a decision. DT_Xtremez_42:
In an ideal world evryone would physically mature dead on their 16th birthday, the real world isn't like that. I have 2 sons, one admitted to me last year that he was getting it regularly at 14, the other i suspect won't be getting any until he's well into his 30s.

I agree a line has been drawn at 16 and i understand the reasons, I also agree the woman is guilty of a breach of trust, however......

I would make the law less rigid. As described above there are occasions when adult males have to defend themselves from legally immature yet physically mature females, not easy at the best of times.

Each case needs to be judged in its own right, the law allows for this (it's called a trial) but the guilty verdict is inevitable and that's where the problem lies. With the verdict comes the inevitable sentence and life on the perverts list, regardless of the facts of the individual case.

but hey.... you women wanted equality DT_Xtremez_30:

 

[Mad Pierre]

Just ask yourself why would an adult, male or female, want to have sex with a minor. Would it be to help them into the 'grown-up' world or some other reason. My money is on the latter.

Because they're fit?

My youngest lad was 6' 4" at 14, good looking and a well accomplished martial artist. Fortunately (and to the best of my knowledge) he didn't hang around with any women over 15 at that time but I do know that since at least 17 he was scoring with women in their mid 20s who had no idea of his age.

Good friend of mine was gaining his experience with a 42 year old when he was 14, it stopped when his mother guessed something wasn't right, she didn't want to drag it through court on just a suspicion and my mate wasn't going to testify against his 'new girlfriend'.
He wasn't at all happy at losing his newfound fun though and it certainly hasn't left him warped towards women.

 

[needsabiggerfuse]

No he didn't. He didn't succumb to it. He didn't at any stage say that he wasn't tempted, did he? We are not discussing lusting after a 10 year old. We are talking 15 coming on 16 yearolds. Can you truthfully say that they do not turn your head when you drive down the road?

No, hand on heart, I was not tempted. If I had been, then I would have weighed up the chances of being caught, realised that there would have been a 50 minute 'no-disturb' time, etc.

On the other hand. I would have been putting pressure on a sexually mature, but emotionally immature girl. There is a responsibility of trust placed on all people within schools and colleges. 'In loco parentis', forget that and you are lost.

How long do you think anyone would last if their eyes popped out every time a teenage girl walked into their classroom?

 

[Ex-Bay]

OK. True story. Me 'newly qualified teacher'. Herself 'adolescent, stunningly attractive, head-turner, etc'.

I could have, on the hand, been in a classroom block which I knew would be empty for at least 50 minutes, with a girl 25 years my junior ...

I've had to seek help when dealing with a female Spacey.
It was quite a difficult time.