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So as some of you may know I'm getting married soon and as we have been living in sin for a few years we have everything we need so what are your views on that delicate subject whereby you request your friends / family company at a wedding and not to purchase any gifts but if they do want to give anything, stick it in a card and place it in a wishing well at the reception? It's the birds idea and it does sound American to me.