Thanks GTF and metimmee. It's nice to know that one of my rare serious posts has hit home.
It is a shame that due to security, most Brits (by that I mean RAF mainly) deployed to Afghanistan will never leave the sanctity of the airbase, be you at Kabul, Kandahar, or worse. Take it from me, it can easily lead to a line of thinking that goes "Why are we here?" I witnessed it myself at Kabul airport. That, as I say, is a real shame.
If you had the chance, (and for any going there soon, I recommend it highly) I would suggest getting into the towns and villages. Maybe speak to your local Regiment guys, (who are doing a sterling job of building trust in the Brits) or the RAFP CP teams and HUMINT teams who get to mingle. They will generally be happy to take a 'guin or two out for a short time to get a taste of things. It does the soul a world of good I assure you.
For those not able to do the above, please believe me when I say we are making a huge difference to the average Afghan life there. I spoke to many in Kabul who are over the moon that the spectre of the Taleban has disappeared from their lives.
They can now use internet cafes to keep in touch with relatives. They can play football. They can dress how they please (and western fashions such as jeans are popular for the first time a result), they can feed their families due to being able for the first time to trade openly, they can listen to music and watch TV and films previously banned, and they are no longer afraid to vote for a leader of their own choosing.
I personally think that's worth fighting for.
I appreciate that my experience was only Kabul, and that things are more difficult in the taleban held areas such as Lashkagar etc. But it will come. Kabul was a stronghold of the taleban for a year or so after NATO arrived, and Helmand is a new challenge, having been left for so long by the NATO Brussels led beurocrats.
But now the British are there, it will change.
Afghans are hugely respectful of the British. I've been told personally by many a grateful resident. Let's get them on their feet, and let them install their own Government for once. We take that for granted.
And let's not desert them to the leadership they once suffered under.